To Pimp or Not to Pimp…that is the question

The question that strikes fear in hearts of every monogamous relationship is: Am I getting played or not. I know here in Atlanta, the ratio is 13 women to every 1 man. Now that can drive even the most secure woman a bit crazy. You can't always have your mate on a tight leash but at the same time you want to know when, where and what the hell are they doing when your not around. I can't tell you your partner isn't cheating, but just to keep you from going Dog the Bounty hunter on your special someone, here are a few tips to help you keep your cool:

1.) GET A LIFE:

Stay focused on you. Being in love and loving someone is a great thing, but being obsessed with their life will take you away from what should always come first, YOU! After work or school, get involved in some activities (maybe boxing, just incase things pop off, you got a great right hook at your side) Hang out with your friends, and make sure to keep a great balance.

2.) CONFIDENCE IS KEY

Know everyday that having a special person doesn't define who you are, and that if indeed things go the wrong way that other possibilities are waiting for you. Maybe even better than whom you have now!

3.) REMAIN CALM

Always remember, no one is perfect! So sometimes your "pookie" is going to slip up. Don't over react, just stay cool, calm, and collective, acting on impulse will only lead to regret. My theory… no one is worth catching a case over! Put the knife down and pick up the bible, it may save you a 5-10!



Whenever tough situations come your way, remember that tomorrow's possibilities are endless. But of course, have faith. If you chose to be with this person you clearly had to have a good reason why. Stay strong, stay blessed.

- Kim Randall